POST 16: What is the spec of the computer you want?

My brain gets me drained most of the times solely because it speaks for itself at a time I most likely need it to shut. huffness! like now while i'm writing this, my brain rendering a whole new concept about a perfect life for me to live in. hahaha...Subsequently, it put out some theories about everything. So here I would like to share Keisha's brain perfunctory work or, in a post I wrote on my socmed, more often called #teorikeiykul. 

#teorikeiykul #26 - Love At The First Sight

It's so rare for me to discuss about love and relate it to myself "publicly" hahaha... so don't expect your eyes would cross over a name on this post. It's not my "curhat" session... 

Ok, this LAFS theory, I myself never have and never will agree in anyway about this particular event of people falling in love. Why?? kenapa?? Pourquoi?? Because in my humble opinion, loving someone needs a process. It was never an instant one. We're talking about a real grown up love, hey you secondary students hahahaha..

It sure could be an unforeseen occurrence, but such feeling develops from plain physical attraction to strenuous demanding feeling that hook up what we call "heart". The flow of the process could be in reverse. A person could find some people physically more attractive right after he/she falls for their personalities. I never deny that pleasant physical appearance could withdraw attentions of people from the opposite sexes (or perhaps from the same sexes), it happens both in men and women, but along the way you know that person your brain will decide whether she/he suits your criteria. It's because falling in love is a mix of psychological and biological processes. 

And why would people have a criteria? I believe that those who have listed down the criteria of that person they might fall into are those who have already defined their own characters and personalities. It's like when you want to buy a computer, you list down the specs you want them to be in the computer based on your interest and needs. That's it, personality is the key factor. 

So if you ended up marrying a beautiful woman or man, you actually didn't love them at the first sight. You have walked through all the process. You've peeled off every layer to understand that person. You are that lucky bastard who find a pretty face which covers a personality that your brain considers as the one that match with yours..hahaha.. Because love uses not only sight, but also brain then heart. So, I think the prior thing to do is to get to know yourself. Thus, you'll know which character is best to complete you. Well it's my theory after all. Please deal with it, hahaha...

Owhh my brain shifting to another topic...errrghh...Share you another theory later teman-temin!!